Posted on: 29/08/2011

They say there are 5 stages of grief. I never used to buy into that crap until I sat down and analysed all the grief i have felt in my 20+ years on earth and i now realise how true this is. Before anyone can relate to a blog like this you’d have to have passed through these stages and landed at the final 1 “Acceptance” then and only then can you talk about your experience without bias. The stages of grief; for those who don’t already know; are:

Denial, Anger,Bargaining, Depression, Acceptance.

I sat down last night and realised that from all the horrid relationships i or my friends have been in, there was a valuable lesson to be learnt. Not to boast, but i have a great insight to the working on the male brain…some might say “Y haven’t you used this to land yourself a man?’ I’ll tell you these;

Knowing is different from Applying

Ignorance lands you a man far more easily than “I TOO KNOW”

If you honestly could guess what’s going on in a man’s mind you are less likely to change it because you will start to THINK…You can’t work a man’s head by  over thinking, you just have to roll with the punches.

This blog, hopefully, will educate women(and the occasional man) on what’s going on in that dudes head. I don’t assure you that it’ll make you handle you business better(God knows it hasn’t helped me) but you have to agree its fun to know.

LESSON 1: How to know a potential wife beater……ttyl


2 Responses to "INTRO"

I seriously think Bargaining and Depression are recycled constantly till Acceptance is reached. First time here, me likey

Just saw this comment for the first time….Bless u

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  • livelytwist: Interesting topic that we need to come to terms with. As you pointed out, " matter how much you miss your past, there’s a reason you left in th
  • angelsbeauty: Word!
  • Bee: Spot on 👌


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